Category: Sex & Love

The Guy-Plan-Theory

I have this theory about plans. Guy Plans. There’s plan A. Plan A is THE guy. The one for which you drop whatever it is your doing to cook him an intricate health-revival soup when he’s sick. He’s the one…

Why Your “Type” Shouldn’t Be a Thing

Types. We have GOT to abandon them, right now. In fact, we have to give up the ”type” notion all together. When I first moved to the city from a small mountain town, I would scan bars for the type I was used…

Stop Looking for “the One” at a Bar

There’s no denying it, we are in the age where Tinder is a thing and “can I buy you a drink?” is an accepted form of courtship. It’s a bit depressing if you ask me and the Friday night bar routine is…

The Drunk Dial: The Good and the Bad

Ahhhh, the drunk call. My arch nemesis. Anyone who knows me will vouch for this: I am the epitome of a drunk caller. If you’ve ever seen anyone winking one eye at their phone and thought “man, they’re going to regret…

Uphill Battle? You’re Doing it Wrong

Everyone’s always running around saying things like: “Relationships are work” and “you have to make sacrifices in love.” It’s true, buuuuuuut only to some extent. Surprise attack: Relationships CAN be easy, and you do NOT have to sacrifice everything! Sacrifice comes…

Magazines’ Sex Advice you SHOULDN’T Follow With a New Partner

Though the printing press isn’t as active as it used to be, we’ve all picked up a magazine with an enticing cover offering tips with such ground-breaking articles as: ”You’re in Love; Fix Bad Sex” or ”When is it Okay…

Lose the Daggers; No One Wants a Lurker

Here’s the thing; throughout history there have been two breeds of humans: 1)  The notoriously single 2) The never alone. This division has NOTHING to do with how attractive, funny, intelligent or flirty the individual is. So why do singles remain…

We’re in Love With Love

Relationships, like everything else, are ever-changing in nature. Some of these changes are great; for example, promiscuity is no longer frowned upon and divorces are far more common (THANK THE LORD). But other, troubling changes – shall we call them…

We’re All Flirting Wrong

There is something we all do when we meet someone new, and particularly in flirty situations that we all need to stop immediately! Now, I love to talk about myself as much (probably more) than the average bear, but it…